Let's face it, people. My type of guy is The Nerd. I began in 7th grade with a skinny, gangly red headed boy who liked computer programming. I moved onto crushing on a tall red headed boy who looked great in a lavendar t-shirt who also liked computer programming. I suppose I took a departure with the soccer jock, but who could resist that Irish-Italian, dark-haired, blue-eyed boy? Then there was the tall, dark English-Egyptian who graduated as high school Valedictorian. In college there were the crushes that went nowhere, but that I remember well -- gangly dark-haired, glasses trombone player and quiet, awkward, slightly-scarred from teenage acne french horn player.
At last, tumbled down into incurable love with J, my love forever. Awkward, rounded shoulders, glasses (before the Lasik), quiet, shy, mellow, humble, funny, patient, brilliant, wonderful J. He's at the top of his profession in the internetworking expert world. Not too athletic -- no Church ball for him -- but strong and wiry beneath the cushion he's acquired over the years (it's going away -- he's running the the Ragnar with me in June). He is my nerd of nerds. For those of you who just don't get the appeal of the nerd, watch this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FNXe_3gVz6ICome on, you can't tell me there's not something sexy about that!